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Sunday, January 23, 2005

Somebody once told me that "Finding the right
person is very hard and very
wrong... it is best to be the right person for the one
you love and start
from there...you'll always end up disappointed
when you set standards and
define a "right person" for you...and don't rush
things coz somewhere
somehow God is preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find
love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to
find time to
really understand your real feelings, to know who
you really are, and what
you really want in a relationship.

You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect
relationship, but there's
a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If
you already knew
that
you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't
give it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship will not
last, don't go deeper
into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live
like hell for the
rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye
though, but you can't
make it any better by just pretending you still have
the same feelings.

Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life
to the fullest.
Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart
a much-needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right
decision and you made it
all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone and
see them crying as we try
to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it
love when we're too
attached and think that losing the one we love will
somehow make us weak
and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood; it's just that
we're too much dependent to them. We call it love
when we give our whole
life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that
if they leave, no one
would accept us and our past. We are mistaken,
its just insecurity. But
no matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't
something you can buy or beg. It is real and
existing.

You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can't find it,
but it will knock before you when you least expect
it to come. It can make
you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget
that it can also make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy...

Love can be felt and not told, it's what's given and
not sold, it comes
when you least expected it and leaves when you
most needed it, treasure
the love and don't regret it!

-Anon

Valerie RANTED. 10:28 PM